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Interaction
Wednesday, July 15, 2009 at 2:00 AM

Interaction.

Woops, so sorry for the late update for 2nd part. I’ve been really busy…………………………..slacking.
Ok, onto more serious stuff. Yes. SERIOUS SHIT DUDES and DUDETTES.
Let’s see, interaction. I’m a very shy person. (I can already imagine some of you sniggering after u read that) Thus, interaction is something, well, I’m not really good at. I can’t do small talk for nuts, even if you gave me the most expensive nuts, I still wouldn’t be able to. I know myself. YET, ALL OF US(non-eccentric, sane and have EQ) know that this is something VERY important in life. To get information, to get a job, a sponsor, a date and even get laid.

Some of us are like totally great at bullshi…I mean small talking, but there also those few(like myself) who can’t do it. Why? Well for one reason that I can think of is because…we’re shy. Another is, we just can’t be fu..bothered to put in effort to find something to talk about. It does, well for me, take effort to find something to talk about. If the first topic fails, move on, and on…and on….if the fellow really won’t budge, I say move on! Ahahaha. Easier said than done.

Sometimes I do wonder if I’m really that shy that’s why I suck at small talk OR!, I’m just too worried about how the other party would Judge me. You know, it only takes a word…to wreck a relationship that took years to build?...yeah I knew you already knew that. Great.
Yeah, perhaps.. I don’t know, no way to prove it. FYP for you Sociologists-to-be out there.

Sigh.

A close friend asked me this question: How is it possible that TWO people who are supposedly close together(close like..super close..like their thread of closeness is barely a micro-meter long close) would run out of things to talk about?

I think, I kind of remember what my initial response was. It was something like: How can that be? I’m sure you both can talk about a lot of things, the weather….that cute cat u just passed, how that dude in front of u looks like shit… or… songs that you know that have a memory(good or bad) attached to it.
I think I never really thought of what I said before saying it that time.
Another friend of mine told me today that it is possible. Perhaps, u see each other so often, that sometimes there’s really not much to talk about except, to just enjoy each other’s company(in this entire context, 2 people, I mean a guy and a girl k?).

:/

I just thought of another reason why some people suck at small talk, they are just not confident of themselves. Like me! I guess we’re just not confident of what we say. We’re afraid it might sound stupid. Or immature or…”HOW THE HELL CUD U EVEN THINK OF SUCH A THING TO SAY?” kind of reaction.

:/

Lol…
Ok…hm..i think that’s all I can say right now. =[
I have no idea what song I’m listening to right now. I’m on radio. LOL.

I'll play for you.